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“I’ve gotten quite a few comments from other black women noting similar experiences to me and the other women I mention in the article on the large sites. As for others, it’s easy to keep yourself in the dark about racism and bias when you are part of the majority, and I seem to have shone a bit of light about this in those spaces.”As Roderique alluded, there are incredibly complex social reasons behind racial preferences and stereotyping in dating. Sofi Papamarko is the founder of Friend of a Friend Matchmaking.Systemic racism continues to oppress and “other” people of colour and interracial romantic relationships were taboo — even illegal — until shamefully recently in our history.
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“All of this centres on Eurocentric beauty standards, which privilege those who are white or are white adjacent in appearance — things like lighter skin, light coloured eyes, thinner noses, certain jawline shapes.
So, when we see Asian men and black women having a harder time, part of it has to do with beauty standards and part of it has to do with the ways people are socialized to imagine how Asian men or black women behave inside and outside of relationships.”This exclusion of Asian men is a particularly visible problem in the gay community.
“While pretty much all women of colour are considered more sexual and exotic than white women, the ways in which this plays out varies.
Asian women have historically been deemed more sexual but also are viewed as being more demure and feminine.